“¿Por qué nos incomoda tanto el silencio? ¿Por qué encontramos alivio en tanto ruido?”— Martes con mi viejo profesor-Mitch Albom
“Lo más importante de la vida es aprender a dar amor y a dejarlo entrar.”— “Martes con mi viejo profesor”- Mitch Albom
““Y si quieres que los demás lleguen a confiar en ti, también tú debes sentir que puedes confiar en ellos, aunque estés a oscuras. Aunque te estés cayendo.””— Martes con mi viejo profesor
Don’t you think that if it was supposed to happen it would be a little easier? Someone probably told you that good things take time and if it’s quick and easy it won’t be worth it. But why? Some things fall into your lap and are amazing and just because you didn’t work or fight or suffer for something it doesn’t mean it can’t be great. Because the truth is some things aren’t better just because they’re more work. Some things waste your time and aren’t worth it. So stop trying so hard and forcing things that don’t come naturally because you like the idea of them or because you have some kind of fantasy of what it should or will be like. Because some things seem better than they are and people put years into jobs they end up leaving and people miss their daughters soccer games for sales call they never get. And people move away from their families for girls that will break up with them. But after all the sacrifice is it really worth it? Are you really getting something that you can’t get anywhere else at less of a cost? Is there not another girl you would like as much without all the fighting or a job that will pay you as much without taking away your Sundays or friends that are down for drinks whenever you ask them not once a month when it’s convenient? If something’s not working, it’s okay to walk away from it. It’s okay to decide that something you care about so much is just not worth the trouble for what you’re getting out of it. There are endless ways to spend your time but your time isn’t endless, so choose wisely.
Maybe the solution isn’t replacing you or forgiving you or forgetting you. Maybe it’s always been about me.
There are a thousand things I could have said and a thousand ways I could have said it but instead I just walked away and I think that said more than anything else possibly could have.
“Every declaration of love contains an unstated list of exceptions and demands.”— Mason Cooley
(Source : purplebuddhaquotes)
